Absence they say makes the heart grow fonder... as much as I LOVE writing, there are periods of time when it doesn't love me back. I fuss about it and try too hard to write and nothing. Then I relax and forget it and keep living and out of the blues, like an old friend …
Brother Somebody, Sister Somebody…
I tire for world people, true I tire. Orobo! As you fat reach you still dey chop? Small small oh The person wey you dey tell fit hate themselves pass wetin you know, close ya mouth. Lepa shandy! You dey watch weight?? Chop o make you no go disappear. You know whether she dey sick? …
The Thing About Pain..
My people. I have been away, I know. I literally haven't caught a breath in the last two months or so. Life has been moving at the speed of light and it's all I can do to catch up. From the first day I started this blog, I have left a piece of me in …
Handle With Care..
Hey people! So this one has been sitting on my heart for a while now, and I've been afraid to touch it because it would mean speaking up about my own issues and that isn't always fun is it? But if this post can help even one person, it'll all be worth it. Now, I'm …
30, Single,plus sized and please mind yo’ business!..
As much as I stutter and mix up my words, I always make one thing crystal clear especially when people point out an obvious flaw to me. Like my weight or my relationship status or anything they think might be wrong in my life. If you really think about it, do you honestly think I …
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A Random Post On Letting Go.
So I had a cut on my thigh. I don't know how it got there but it did. My body has been working hard to heal the cut, but I won't let it be. Each time the scar tries to dry up, I pick at it till it bleeds again (sorry for the TMI &don't …
When Grace Found Me.
Some truths aren’t easy to admit, or share, or write. They weigh a ton, sitting there until one day you decide it’s going to be the day of your freedom and then you let it all out. Today is one of those days for me. I want to be dramatic and say I was a …
30 And Oh! So Thankful.
So yesterday, I turned 30. It was also the first birthday since I turned twenty five that I didn’t cry or feel unaccomplished. I did not have one cloud in my sky yesterday, I actually had a beautiful day! You know, I didn’t set out to. I honestly assumed that anxiety would kick in and …
This Is Me…
This is me. This is the part where I say goodbye to everything that has held me bound. This is me breaking up with depression, anxiety and stress. This is me kicking all these meaningless situationships that are neither here nor there to the curb. This is me reclaiming my time, my joy, my …
I Ate Alone!…
Happy New Year my people! I hope everyone is having an amazing January so far? It’s been a minute I know, but truly I have turned a new leaf. I gave up on making New Year resolutions a long long time ago, simply because I never keep them. I just try to live better …
